It's an acronym for "She Who Must Be Obeyed". It comes from a BBC series - "Rumpole of the Bailey". I have called her that for years. But . . . she is truly a dear, in spite of that trait.
She, also, hates to be photographed so I have to sneak pictures now and then. But I have learned (remember that SWMBO) to ask her permission before I publish one.
She was working in the yard recently and I got a couple that she agreed, reluctantly, to let me post. I like this one in her "Vincent Van Gogh" hat.
So, I got away with a couple. And then. There's her companion, Mr. Blackwell.
He's the only one of the trio who gets to go outside and that permission was granted reluctantly, as reluctantly as SWMBO allowed me to post photos of her. But he has become accustomed to our home. He loves to go out. But he's become so fat that he can no longer go under the fence to free land. And he's become very accustomed to the regular feeding he gets inside.
So, he goes out, stays in the yard and comes in again when we ask him.