Thursday, April 17, 2025

OUR MEXICAN PATIO

Mexican homes frequently have an inside patio open to the sky but surrounded by the walls of their house.

We had such a home for a couple of years when we lived in Guadalajara and the photo yesterday shows our friends posing in it.

They weren't the only ones to stand in that same spot.



That is the much younger She Who Must Be Obeyed and Catalyst, aka Judy and I.

There was a potted ficus tree and plants everywhere, watered sometimes by us and sometimes by a rain shower.

There was also a fountain in the center, which our cat Chulapay loved to drink from.



Chulapay (Spanglish for Cutie Pie) was an adopted Siamese, or so we thought.

Some years later I decided she was actually a Tonkinese.

Regardless of her DNA, she was an agile climber and leaper with the balance of . . well . . a cat.

She learned to scale a vine-covered trellis and jump to the upper level of the home.



That led to her disappearance for the better part of a week one time, as she could roam the rooftops and climb down into other people's living spaces.

We had searched the neighborhood, put up notices of the lost gato and asked neighbors and strangers if anyone had seen her, to no avail.

We sadly thought she was gone for good.

Until one day when she suddenly appeared, came down that trellis and nonchalantly inquired if we were going to feed her.

We suspected she got into someone's closet or shed and was unknowingly locked in. 

She never told us and was soon back to her old tricks, looking for a high spot in the room where she could survey her domain and we mere humans.



It's been many a year now that she's gone from our lives but I like to think that she's perched on the highest cloud watching everything with curiosity.

The curiosity of a cat.

Wednesday, April 16, 2025

THE CREATOR

 After some difficulty, I have managed to uncover a photo of the man who shot that picture on yesterday's post.

His name is Tom and he is shown with his wife Carol in the inside patio of that wonderful home we lived in for a couple of years in Guadalajara, Mexico.



They were good friends of ours from Phoenix, Arizona.

p.s. Neither Taylor Swift or Tim "the Toolman" Taylor or James Taylor ever visited us in that house.

At least as far as I know.

Those were hazy, crazy days.

The photo is actually in the garage, facing the kitchen.

A door to the left leads to the living room, which leads to the patio, surrounded by bedrooms.

It was a neat place.

I've been going through picture albums.

More Mexico stories to come.

Tuesday, April 15, 2025

SOLVE THE MYSTERY


My wife, SWMBO (She Who Must Be Obeyed), and I puzzled over this photograph for a long time this afternoon.

We recognized the name (our surname) but for the longest time we couldn't identify the location.

It was obvious we lived there.

Or someone with our last name did.

But for the longest time we were at our dagnapped to where it was.

We finally figured it out.

Can you?

If you know right away, don't spoil it for the rest.

( . . . to be continued . . . )

Monday, April 14, 2025

TODAY'S SPECIAL DAY

Today is National Dolphin Day in the United States of America!



Dolphins communicate with each other, though not by words.

They have a system of pops, crackles and whistles that allows them to "talk" with other dolphins.

Their brain is second only to humans in its size compared to their body.

I say let's run one for President!

But today is also another national day, dedicated to a nut that is native to the U.S.A.

I know what you're thinking but it isn't me.



It's the pecan!

So make a pecan pie or some pralines and celebrate.

Oh, yes, there's one other national day today.

That's National Ex-Spouse Day.

It was created in 1987 by a minister in Kansas City, Missouri.

He said it's time to forgive our ex-spouses and focus on ourselves.

In it's inaugural year he is said to have handed out buttons that said: I'm OK - You're History.

And that's all I've got today.

Friday, April 11, 2025

THE FRIDAY FUNNIES

After our 54th anniversary last Monday, my wife has left me.

But before you take back all those congratulations on our lasting it through all the years of strife and glory, let me explain that she'll be back tomorrow.

She only left to house- and cat-sit for our daughter, the BAD, who is away from her home and her four (!) cats to celebrate her birthday.

April is a busy month for us with birthdays and such.

So busy in fact that I was only able to muster up the strength to find a couple of humorous pictures for your delectable Friday pleasure and amusement.

But never fear, the words are here to bail me out.

So shall we begin?



























Oh my, without SWMBO here to rein me in I fear I went a bit overboard this week.

So if your sides are aching from all that laughter, take this gentle advice sedately: have a fantabulous weekend!

And always remember to keep laughing!

But not too much.

Here, kitty-kitty . . .

( . . . oh they learn so young, don't they . . . )

Tuesday, April 8, 2025

MARKING THE DAY

This is a photo of SWMBO (Judy) and I celebrating the anniversary of our wedding day.




That jolly lad seems to have a darker head of hair and beard.

And he's holding a cigarette in one hand!

They both appear . . . well . . . younger.

They were.

This was our 20th wedding anniversary in a village called San Antonio Tlayacapan in Mexico.

We caroused with a crowd of some 20 or so friends.

The year was 1991.

Yesterday we quietly celebrated another anniversary.

Our 54th as a married couple.

The beard is whiter and so is the hair.

As we remarked on the event we noted that there have been some ups and downs to this marriage.

But somehow it and we have endured.

So yesterday we were just the two of us.

Judy cooked a pork tenderloin and roasted sweet potatoes and, of course, made a wonderful salad of chunks of cantaloupe and mango.

We opened a bottle of Prosecco but unlike in those heady years of our youth we only drank about half of it.

We both quit smoking when we returned to "the States", over thirty years ago.

With age comes some wisdom and a certain calmness of spirit.

As well as a deepening love.

Sunday, April 6, 2025

THREATENING

This was our sky yesterday.


It looked kind of scary but nothing ever materialized out of it, at least where we live.

Today is sunny and blue skies.

Temperature is about 60 F/15.5 C and supposed to go a few degrees higher this afternoon.

Heading into the low 80's by mid-week.

Just another day in paradise.