Monday, April 28, 2025

AH YOUTH

Once one reaches a certain age one's curiousity about his past comes to the fore.

Apparently that also comes to the minds of one's friends.

At least mine.

Tommy Terrific sent me this photo the other day and after cropping it slightly and correcting the color intensity, I thought I'd show it to you.




Left to right here are the afore-mentioned Tommy Terrific, your Catalyst, and the frequently named in this blog Timmer.

Just to treat them with the respect their years have earned them their true names are Tom Cochrun, Bruce Taylor, and Tim Dietz.

Three journalists.

Tom is now retired in Central California, Tim has (finally!) retired in a suburb of Denver, and I live in Central Arizona.

Tom and I have been friends for over 55 years, Tim and I for around 50.

Baseball Steve (Steve Torbeck of Phoenix) and I have over 50 years on the calendar as friends.

I heard from all three of them on my recent birthday.

Sometimes the old friends are the best friends.

26 comments:

LL said...

I have a best friend from when we were 5. We are both 73 this year. I just talked to her this morning. We have never let a week go by without a phone call since college. Just one person to tell everything to in your life is a great thing. Decades of marriages, births, deaths, birthdays, and sometimes the boring every day things. Rick and I drove by the pie place, Rock Springs Cafe, on our way to Phoenix Friday and I thought of you and your buds!

Catalyst said...

Yes, it's been a long time since my last visit to the Pie Place. Lots of good memories from there.

Margaret said...

Old friends know your history and back stories, both good and bad. They understand what's shaped you into the person you are now. That's the beauty of long friendships!

Ellen D. said...

My best friend, Jan, is a woman I met in Fall of 1964 when we went to high school together. Our friendship would ebb some years but always picked up again and we are still going strong now.
We used to sing in scouts, "Make new friends, but keep the old. One is silver and the other gold."

Catalyst said...

Indeed.

Catalyst said...

I have a friend who is nearly 93 and stays in contact with friends going back to kindergarten.

CheerfulMonk said...

I’m happy for you! Hurray for good health and longevity. ❤️

Catalyst said...

You and Andy are my lodestars!

Boud said...

How wonderful to maintain these friendships. My emigration tended to make them dwindle, but some have endured.

Catalyst said...

One must endure with them.

Red said...

Obviously you did many great things together...good times!

Catalyst said...

Yes, we were the greatest. 🤣

Granny Sue said...

Wow, that is amaging that you have friends from so far back! Pretty cool.

River said...

I never forged any lasting keep-in-touch friendships, we moved around so much. I'll have to do something about that before I get too old and start forgetting.

sillygirl said...

It just occurred to me that the thing about long-time friends is that you don't have to prove yourself to them - they have already accepted your quirks!

Diaday said...

What a Terrific Trio!

Catalyst said...

I still hear from friends I had growing up!

Catalyst said...

It's good to keep your friends close, even if not geographically.

Catalyst said...

And quirks we had!

Catalyst said...

Thank ya', thank ya' ver much! (that's my inner Elvis).

Anonymous said...

It's so wonderful to have friends for over 50 years. Love seeing the photos. (NewRobin13)

Travel said...

Together through thick and thin

Yorkshire Pudding said...

The three of you look like a singing group or "boy band" in your cool shades. Having those friends of 50+ years is a genuine blessing Bruce. In that respect you are a very fortunate man.

Catalyst said...

I feel the same. Thank you.

Catalyst said...

Indeed we did.

Catalyst said...

Thanks Robin.